Some great advice
My mouth fell open this morning.
I had been feeling frustrated at how slow weight loss has been, especially lately. I know that slow is good; it means that my weight loss has a higher chance of being permanent. But still…ugh!!!
My lovely hairdresser, while she was snipping away, wisely suggested that I stop weighing myself every day. It’s a habit of mine. I’m afraid my weight will spiral out of control if I don’t do it. Sounds crazy, but that’s how I feel. I need a daily check in. Trouble is, it sets the tone for my day, good or bad. If the scale moves down, GREAT! But if it moves up, I start analyzing what I did wrong – what I ate, did I move my body enough, etc. I know that weight can go up and down for all kinds of reasons. But I’m hard on myself.
So I took her advice. I stopped weighing myself every morning. I skipped Sunday, Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. This morning, I decided I would see where things were at. And that’s when my mouth literally fell open. O!
187.0 lbs.
For reals. I have been stuck in the 190’s for weeks now.
Now I'm analyzing why it suddenly moved? Is it because I’m obsessing less about the number by skipping some days? OMG I need to stop analyzing! I need to stop trying to figure it out and just be happy!
I've lost 35 lbs. That's a small child! This motivates me to continue making healthy food choices and to move my body. It's working and I'm feeling better - physically and mentally. One pound at a time.
I think this is a great approach! Remember that weight is nothing more than the force of gravity on you and you're more than just a number! We are worth so much more than just our weight. I've been listening to a great podcast by the actress Jamila Jamil (she was on The Good Place) called "I Weigh" and I highly recommend it!
I am so proud of you!! It takes courage to not weigh yourself — to not define yourself by the number — to not set the course of the day based on the scale’s cold verdict. It sounds like you are feeling lighter not only physically, but mentally. ❤️